Only dims/LIEberals/American AMerica-Hater even consider such a stupid question.
If it is asked in an angsty-liberal-whiney "Why do they hate us" way, then it is a stupid question.
On the other hand it is a rational question to ask how they develop that much hatred and how can we short circuit that source. Is the hatred coming from Saudi-funded Wahabi mullahs? Then lean on the Saudis to really cut off funding and also work on becoming less dependent on Arab oil. Is the hatred caused by Syria whipping up an anti-American frenzy? Then support Assad's opposition and work to make sure he flees into exile or is hung in the public square in Damascus. Is the hatred caused by an uncontradicted series of lies from the Arab media? Then set up Radio (and Sattellite) Free Middle East to tell the truth.
Asking the question as a way to blame us is stupid. Asking it to find out the proper target for psychological warfare is smart.