As for me though, I don't "tell her" anything - I just silently don't open doors for women, nor do I stand up for them on the bus, or engage in any other number of chivalrous behaviours.
Like you said, women wanted "equality". And now, they've got it. In spades. How happy they must be!
Huh - If I'm holding a door and someone's coming, I hold it open to be polite, whether it's a man or a woman.
What an idiot I must be. I open doors for everyone. Men, women, children, it doesn't matter. I'll stop to help anyone with a flat as well, regardless of gender or age.
You won't get married either to a nice conservative woman with that kind of behavior.
My husband told me that he knew I was the girl for him on our first date. This is the reason. He opened the car door for me. Instead of just sitting there, I leaned over and unlocked the door for him. He was nice to me, and I was nice to him.
We've been married for almost 15 years. He was talking the other day that maybe we should have another marriage ceremony with our kids. I said I would love to have one on the beach in Hawaii with just us and our kids. It would be lovely.