On the contrary, I think they'd agree with me on what you're looking for, and they want no part of it. Hence your search overseas. :~D
Look - maybe you're a nice guy who uses this forum to 'vent' as FF says. But something tells me you've got some serious garbage in your head.
Women are just people GreenOgre. As varied as men are.
You're still here darlin'!?!?
Bless your heart for carrying the standard and fighting the Bitter Boy Dragons.
Don't fret, you'll always have way more friends that enemys.