[Melas]

Women are more likely than men to delude themselves. They can have a firm picture of what kind of person they want (and it never occurs to them to ask why this perfect man would have any interest in them) and will not settle for anything less. Then these women wind up at 35, never married, bitter, and still not having a clue.

I'm not sure how that relates to my post at all. I've had remarkable success with women my whole life, and I know that I probably don't live up to a single item on the perfect mate list.

[HairOfTheDog]

I'm not sure how that relates to my post at all. I've had remarkable success with women my whole life, and I know that I probably don't live up to a single item on the perfect mate list.

If you've had remarkable success with women your whole life, I bet you've got a few items on the "perfect mate list", not least of which is humility (which, by it's nature, keeps you from seeing yourself as any of the other perfect qualities).

Maybe the ideal man is the guy who doesn't use "I'm the ideal man" as his sales pitch :~D

[IDontLikeToPayTaxes]

I've had remarkable success with women my whole life, and I know that I probably don't live up to a single item on the perfect mate list.

By the looks of your pics, I can understand that. Women LOVE the "badboy" look. There are more drop dead gorgeous divorced single mothers where I work that have ex-con "baby daddies"....sheesh.....

Not saying your an ex con or anying, but the whole badboy, beard, piercings, motorcycle, leather, outlaw thing drives girls nuts!

Where does it ever end.