Where does personality and brains fit into all of this?
I understand dating someone that is cute, but I don't understand marrying someone just because of their looks.
I dated lots of good looking men (some better looking than my husband was). However, I married a man that had something more.
I know my husband dated plenty of attractive women, but he says they were too liberal for him. He married me because I was conservative and smart.
I said that it was looks that initially attracted me. That is not why I married them. But I would never have known they had a great personality if the first time I met them they had a mustache thicker than mine.
As a man, good looks opened the door and a great personality sealed the deal. By the same token, the fact that I had a job and money and paid for our first date made them feel secure enough to go on a second one. I dont fault them for that....I applaud their good judgement.
But do you think if I told them I wanted to have them over to my mom's house to play on my x-box that they would give a rats rear end about my personality?