Then you have a naive view of the world. Guys, unlike women, don't join sewing circles and talk about the latest Dr Phil book to bond and have a good time.
You are obviously trying to tag me with the metrosexual label.
At fifty three years of age I am well beyond naive.
What is naive is thinking that women take their clothes off in front of you for money because they like you.
Dr Phil???? The guy's a house plant, a phoney wellness Guru. I doubt very much that the good Dr has a degree in anything.
Yeah, it's not naive to think that a girl you are paying to give you a lap dance is doing it because they like you. People who go to these places are losers who need to get a life...especially if they are over 19 and still doing it.