Actually, for the most part the kids had to do something pretty bad to even get the parent's involved. Really, most schools are afraid to tick parents off. I know it doesn't seem like that from the news, but it seems (in my experience, both as a teacher and a parent) to be true.
It's NOTHING like when I was a kid. We were afraid of the teachers and principals (in a respectful sort of way). The kids today aren't afraid of much.
I'm sure there is some abuse, there always is when anyone has power over another, but I think the problems with schools are more subtle than that.
susie
Yes. And my guess is that the spawn of the most fearful parents are the worst offenders.
I remember a discussion once between two parents (not on FR) about how they can get their kids categorized as ADHD. I was amazed but I guess that gives the kid immunity from expulsion because of the Americans with Disabilities act. They are like, untouchable no matter what they do.