Sounds like you and I are about even on 2005, except mine started in 2004! Repeat after me ...
"This, too, shall pass ... this, too, shall pass ... this, too, shall pass ..."
Then click your heels together ...
The bad stuff builds character. I didn't mean to make that sound so awful. I am a lot better off than many people, so I will just trudge onward and see what's around the next corner. Happy New year to you.
P.S> Mine started in 2003, if we wanna get technical--see? There's always someone worse off! Cheer up! ;)