Then you picked the right moralizer to listen to.
Personally, I don't want to her his sh@t any more on why God says we shouldn't be homosexual or practice polygyny or why we should never try to get the microwave repairman fix our machine on warranty when we broke it through our own negligence, etc. After all, he picks and chooses whats right and wrong, why shouldnt the rest of us?
His brand of thoughtful analysis works for me. Divorce is bad and often unseemly, but not necessarily immoral.
Those who can cope with that appreciate his insights. I can.