Sounds like you don't have a problem cramming your opinions down you kid's throat. Granted, you have that right, since it's your kid, but you have to admit the irony.
You can choose to live whatever life you want, and take whatever actions you like, but just because you do something doesn't make it moral. If your kid grew up to be rude, disrespectful of eleders, unemployed, intolerant, and non-environmentally friendly, would you still consider that life a moral one? Why not? Your kid might. And who would you be to judge another adult's actions?
Sigh. I love FR.
(Denny Crane: "I Don't Want To Socialize With A Pinko Liberal Democrat Commie. Say What You Like About Republicans. We Stick To Our Convictions. Even When We Know We're Dead Wrong.")