If your view is so obvious... just look at what you have to do to to arrive at your conclusions: the husband lied (because he must have), the autopsy was incorrect (because it must have been done by a quack), she didn't say she would want to live that way (because if a tree falls in the forest and nobody hears it fall, then it didn't fall), and she didn't wake up once in the decades because she was going to wake up later. Mental gymnastics an olympic sport? You'd get gold.
Apparently I must retract my earlier statement about "not getting into this again", as it's obvious I have.
Like TAdams pointed out, there was no documentation stating that she wanted to die. All YOU have is the testimony of a husband whose motives were questionable.
Gold medal? Ha! You'd win platinum, pal!