It is one of the unexpected joys of FR and life, IMO.
The kindness of (not so) strangers, if you will.
While I have not lost a child and can only imagine the pain of such a loss, my heart goes out to you, Howlin, to the Dungys and to all who, not only have had to endure such pain at the time, but carry it w/you/them even now...the hurt that does not go away.
God bless all parents whose hearts carry this burden.