[Uriah_lost]

As a single, straight, intelligent man I have more problem with ambitious women than accomplished or intelligent women. I've spent my life hearing that I "just need to apply myself" or you "need to get motivated". I have come to accept that my lack of drive for achievement will keep me single(barring a miracle) so I will be able to make something better of myself in ways the world may never understand. Then again, I may just end up old and alone..... ok, that's it! I'm going to bed now....grumble grumble....

[luckystarmom]

I can say that I looked for very ambitious men. I wanted to marry someone that was going to be able to provide a home and be able to make it possible for me to stay home with the kids. These days, that needs to be a very ambitious man. I'm just glad that I met my husband, and he had the same goals as I did. He wanted his kids to have a stay-at-home mom.