If you are true to yourself, it's easy. If you are true to an alternate sense of self created by twenty-plus years of counter-instinctual feminist programming you've unconsciously absorbed from public schools and television, then it's really, really hard.
A woman who is not so self-absorbed in her own little emotional enviro-world has a better chance. As a man I find women who are relatively smart and have an easy friendly down to earth positive personality appealing. Ultra liberal women are turn off's to me and not mate material IMO. You conservative, God-friendly babes just look better too and made of the right stuff for the long term.