When everything you hear from the pulpit makes you feel good, then you know something is wrong. If you are not a Christian, you might not realize the importance of this, but the truth of the matter is God's Word often makes us very uncomfortable, which should be a way to make us search our hearts and minds so we can see where we need adjustments in our character and so on.
He is both the balm of Gilead as well as the stone that makes men stumble and the rock that makes men fall.