I caught my daughter smoking when she was 17 we argued about that for about three months, then you know what happened?
She was killed by a drunk driver.
I had wasted the last 3 months of her life trying to protect her instead of enjoying her.
I learned then, that none of us know when, how or why any of us are going to die.
Only GOD does!
I am so sorry about your daughter. How terrible. But you did what any respectable parent would do. You're right. God knows the day and the hour.