one of my daughter's classmates in kindergarten had a bee sting allergy. he almost died from it and his mother was on every field trip, every outside outing, recess etc. i didn't blame her. i don't think i could ever relax after hearing the horrifying story of how his entire head swelled and she was going through stopsigns etc to get him to the hospital. my blood curdles just thinking of it. i am sorry you have to worry about your baby too.
I don't know if she will outgrow it or not. Just have to see. I have a pic of her on my profile page. She's the one with the really big eyes.