If they were meeting in secret, the father wasn't watching closely enough.
In case anyone hasn't noticed, among all the other calamities we are experiencing in the "Age of Feminized Man," young girls from supposedly good families are disappearing all around us and turning up as ground beef or not turning up at all. We fathers cannot let our daughters run wild out on the streets without risking disaster for them, for our own families and for the communities we live in.
In the name of feminine "equality" (whatever that means), we men are permitting our entire civilization to be reduced to an episode from "Girls Gone Wild," with naked girls passing out free sex, and young men correspondingly unable to control themselves.
This is having catastrophic consequences everywhere.
DA740
"If they were meeting in secret, the father wasn't watching closely enough."
So what was her father supposed to do? Follow her everywhere she went? Or maybe just assume that she is lying, no matter what she says?
I think having a little faith in your children is also necessary. You can't just assume everything a kid says is a lie.
There may have never been a reason to believe she was lying.
Especially if she seemed to be the 'model' daughter.
I'm sorry, but I never chased my daughters around everywhere they went, but I did check to make sure that they were where they were supposed to be if they said they were going to be on a 'sleep over'.
But, that being said, I didn't call in the middle of the night to see if her 'friend' let her sneak out in the middle of the night either.
It's called 'trust'. And until they violate that trust, there is no reason to be a 'paranoid' parent.