Exactly. I play in a praise band (not an orchestra - boy would that be cool), and what you said is true; nowhere else do I feel such a closeness to God as when I take the gifts he's given me, and lay them at his feet.
I'm still trying to figure out the "Jesus is my boyfriend" thing. Maybe "Draw Me Close", or maybe "I Can Only Imagine".
Can we not declare our love for our Lord ?
Anytime the term "mega-church" is posted, you can expect the same Pavlovian response.
It's one of many hot-button phrases like "purpose driven" that are just irresistable to some.