[Last Dakotan]

Furthermore, I believe many women who use sex (or rather the denial of it) in a relationship are surprised to find out that their husbands turn to porn.

In reality, how hard can it be for a wife's loving touch to compete with a cold flickering image on a video screen?

[papertyger]

Furthermore, I believe many women who use sex (or rather the denial of it) in a relationship are surprised to find out that their husbands turn to porn.

Some of the worst vitriol over Dr. Laura's "Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" was over her contention that marrying a man then denying him sex was locking him into a contractual obligation and refusing to hold up the other end of that contract.

Only a narcissistic jackass thinks they can get away with "heads I win, tails you lose" in perpetuity