Russians don't hate the Poles nor do they fear them. They do respond to endless Polish provocations. Personally, I think Russia should totally embargo Poland and ignore it as an none entity. Besides, if anything needs to be settled in reference to Poland, the Russians should go to the real masters of Poland, Brussels or the pay masters of Poland: Germany, France and England.
I think that Russian communist party or Zhirinovski already proposed something like that. But I always repeat that communist ideas wont work and policy must be separated from business. (sounds good in my opinion for two countries which pretend to be democratic ) I’m not surprised that this way of thinking is not shared by you and your above mentioned friends and allies.