Russia is spending own money on what ?
You said:
"I am generally against this system being deployed in Poland but that Russia wouldn't like It is one of few positive aspects in the whole affair."
Stop spending US money on your anti-Russian agenda. US spends it own money on its own agenda, Russia spends its own money on its own agenda, which is not on anti-Poland nonsense as far as I can see. If Poland has an agenda let Poland spend its own money on it.
The US is not a wedge between Russia and Poland. Russia can be a potent and valuable force against Islamists. It remains to be seen what they will do with Iran and Syria. Latest news on Iran has been more positive.
http://www.signonsandiego.com/news/world/20051117-1323-nuclearagency-iran.html