Something tells me that Muslim advice for a man with wife problems is not real complicated.
"Something tells me that Muslim advice for a man with wife problems is not real complicated."
http://www.muhajabah.com/marriagedynamics.htm
"he husband has been allowed to admonish, boycott, or hit his wife if she is recalcitrant. Nearly all modern scholars, including some of the most conservative, are agreed that these three steps must be taken in sequence (see for example, Shari'i procedures when a wife is recalcitrant). That is, first the husband sets out verbally why he thinks his wife's conduct is wrong. If that doesn't work and she still refuses to agree then he may "boycott" her, that is, separate from her in bed. If that still doesn't work, then finally he may hit her."