Would a woman martyr get 72 men virgins?
I doubt it. Women sometimes have a pretty lousy life in Middle Eastern countries -- perhaps they're more motivated by the "push" to get out of this world than the "pull" of the next world.
"Would a woman martyr get 72 men virgins?"
She gets to be one of the virgins the male suicide bomber's are promised.
No. The contract says "72 virgins" and they therefore must be literally virgins. Analogues and substitutes do not satisfy the terms of the contract.