Posted on 11/10/2005 8:06:01 AM PST by Mike Bates
People used to laugh at me when I would talk constantly to our
children before they could speak, including saying "Please" and "Thank You". My mother says my kids were the politest one year olds she has ever met. : )
Since moving to GA, I no longer say "you guys". Do you think the crabby ones would be happier with my current "y'all"?
: )
In one sense, they are somewhat inherent. One of the best ways of teaching manners is by example. Polite parents seem to have a much easier time teaching manners to their kids because the kids get to see their parents' good manners practiced on a regular basis.
Been there, done that!!!!!!
I must admit to feeling a bit smug when someone compliments my daughter on her manners, I know I shouldn't, but sometimes I just can't help it.
Excellent point.
I absolutely cringe when I'm having a conversation with someone and their children interupt the conversation without a simple "Excuse me." My daughter has learned the hard way about interupting others, I will immediately correct her and then continue with my conversation. she has learned the simple phrase "Excuse me" will get much better attention than being rude.
I did the same thing to my children and the first words out of their mouths were not mama or daddy but please, thank you, and you're welcome.
You are quite welcome :)
She says the premise of her book is that when someone is rude, you don't feel safe. It makes you feel that the world is a dangerous place and you want to protect yourself by withdrawing.
Actually, rudeness sometimes makes me wish I were packing heat.
The older I get the more I carry in my purse.
I figured that it was a 'trendy' response.
The term "You're welcome" sounds old fashioned or friendly.
I think that the correct format should be: "no problem, dude".
Sometime I respond, "If there was a problem, I'd let you know".
All I ever get is a blank stare.
Yeah, words mean things. I'm glad that you enjoy them.
Thanks.
When I was shopping for a new car, the first thing the salesman said to me was: "What's your name?" I responded with my proper last name. He asked, "What's your first name. What should I call you?" I said, "You may call me "Ma'am."
He didn't. I left.
Reminds me of the Inspector Morse series. When asked his first name, Morse would answer, "Inspector."
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