[Aquinasfan]

How many men good christian men are hooked on Internet Porn have secret affairs, this happens I see it in my own church and personally the Church does not even think that is the BIG SIN, but keep tithing keep the family together, keep asking Jesus for forgiveness and if you are weak when it comes to keeping your pants zipped or feeling Lust in your heart just pray...that's what it is...

This kind of thing is horrible, but the best outcome is repentence and the restoration of the marriage, right? Life can be messy.

[laney]

Sure it is..But I beg to say most people are AFRAID, afraid of being alone afraid of being unloved afraid to be on there own. I can honsetly say I am not afraid on being alone, although lonliness would be hard wether married or un-married.

I have expereinced BOTH being lonely while married and being happy being alone...