Yup. No doubt about it whatsoever.
I just with more women would wake up and see it for what it is. IT'S NOT THEIR FAULT that they are getting abused.
One of the most common lines used by the abuser is, "You made me do it" or "You made me so mad I couldn't help it"
The abused somehow feel like if they hadn't said X then Y would not have happened. Next time they try harder to please the abuser, so they won't get abused.
It's a viscous cycle that leaves the abused with zero self esteem.
This woman is a classic example of what happends if you don't get out.