Not really. It's not a conscious decision on the female frogs' parts, just as it isn't a conscious decision on the parts of the girls who simply had no desire to go out with you.
I'd take that personally except for the fact that the only girl I've ever cared about, asked me out first, and has given me 7 children. I hope you have a mate at least 1/10th as lovely as she is, all 115lbs of fiery redhead, but somehow I doubt it. If you and I could part ways as a species, I'm sure we'd do it, but God knows best.