Because society does not always agree with the teachings of the Church, we do not ignore the teachings of Jesus, but instead, seek to correct the fallibilities of society....Originally you were right, but you chose the VERY dangerous path of conformity with secularism which,for the most part, is always wrong
I think God cares more how you live your life than what church you attend. And frankly I don't consider spending eternity with Catholic School Clones a form of eternal reward... Sounds more like the other place to me.