I don't care what people do in their private lives, but I think private organizations should be allowed to set whatever standards they wish for their leaders, within the law. Now what about the "ex-gays." If you're against practicing homosexuals in those roles, would you allow people who say they're no longer homosexual? The question is directed to both you and the original poster.
For the most part, I agree. Yet if somebody is engaging in self destructive behavior then my compassion says I should try to help them.