I have no objection to the idea that the structure of the universe derives from some massive intelligence; I am skeptical about the likelihood that it can be detected; and certainly about efforts to date. Dembski, for example, seems to have moved hardly at all from 'bogus use of a priori probability estimates'. And I do agree that 'God the Tinkerer' would be a disappointing deity.
It is hardly hostility to attribute to you confidence in what you, yourself, present forcefully.
Of course not. It is hostile to attribute absolutism. I am an atheist not out of absolutism, but because of all the possible ways the universe might have come about, a single individual deity created in man's image seems to be one of the least plausible, and I refuse to label myself in terms of an uncertainty about whether this creature, of all the possible cosmologies, exists. As you say, disbelief in 'one god paganism' is sensible.
Placemarker.