Same with automobiles. Leading cause of death for many people groups, auto accidents. You should be Amish. Maybe you are.
Any technology can be used to kill.
This is, as usual, the retelling of the story of eating of the fruit of the Tree of Knowledge. The tree exists, but God has told us not to eat the fruit. It's the first story. It's the foundation of the Judeo-Christian life. I feel terribly sorry for anyone who is so very blind to the horror and tragedy of IVF.
How does a parent who has a child via IVF tell that child that he or she is the lucky one; his brothers and sisters were frozen, given away or sold for science? One doesn't, of course. Why not?