I may be a "bossy Pharisee," but that doesn't make me wrong. I understand the heart of Jesus Christ, the man who threw the money-changers out of the temple; the man who said the first and most important commandment was to Love God with your whole Mind, Heart and Soul.
People who do not take the time to understand, acknowledge and hate evil, for whatever reason, are choosing to ignore the heart of each person's responsibility for his own soul. Christ died for us. His grace freed us; but anyone can choose to reject His sacrifice. That's part of the "glamour" of IVF. It's the way evil works.
Truth hurts. I have as much an obligation to point out the sin of the sinner as I do to proclaim the Kingship of Christ. So does every Christian.
You've confused pointing out difficiencies with name calling.
Christians are here to share the love of Christ, not judge the world. The sinful world isn't your domain, as Paul said, what do I have in judging the world? That's God's job. If you followed your Bible, you'd not be casting judgment on unbelievers. You're the judge of no one. Leave it that way...