Based on your answers I believe the boat hit you in the head with devastating effects.
You asked if babies who are miscarried go to heaven? One would hope they do since God told us ""Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations." Jeremiah 1:5
Now you and that other fellow tell folks on this thread that Jesus said "Judge not lest ye be judged..."
Relativists like that one but they always leave out the hook, the passage is condemning hypocrisy, not judgement. So I judge your arguments wanting and will be happy to destroy them if you'd care to continue.
The other fellow is welcome to join as well,
We are told not to judge. Paul said, WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO IN JUDGING UNBELIEVERS? That's God's job. We only judge those inside, not outside, the family of believers.
You can quote Jeremiah, Habakkuk, Obadiah, Philemon.... but when it comes down to it, we're not here to judge the unsaved world. That's God's job. We're here to bring them to Him in love. These sorts of religious debates don't generally do that. They only create a WIDER wedge. That's why God said, DON'T JUDGE. Too bad more Christians won't get that, and listen to Paul. For the unbeliever, tell them about the glorious Gospel, not beating them over the head with your morality