Do you expect them to or want them to actually say "Jen and Brad engaged in heterosexual sex during their marriage"?
I guess I'm not making my point. And maybe it's a dumb point. LOL
I'll say it once more and then I'm leaving the thread.
Among the heterosexuals I know, we do not discuss the sex lives of our friends.
Among the homosexuals I know, and I know quite a few, they constantly discuss the sex lives of their friends and acquaintances and wonder if so and so is gay. Constantly.