I have a girlfriend who married an Illegal alien from columbia. He got his green card then. The problem is, after they had 3 children together, the wife found out, the husband had another wife and family in Columbia, living with his mother. He frequented there with their 'emerald busienss'. The home the two of them bought is not in the wife's name, but the mothers name.
I fear for her. The father in law has been arrested on drug trafficking charges, and the son is still traveling frequently. Sad for her and her children, her husband longs for his wife and family in Columbia.
I guess that is ok, cause he is from Columbia, and not from Arizona or Utah.
American women are STUPID if they take up with any man who has another family somewhere. Not just stupid but dangerous. Unfortunately, it happens on a wide scale.
Yikes. What you describe gives me a really bad vibe, too. Sounds like said girlfriend was nothing but an anchor for those folks to get a foothold...and now she's expendable. Yeesh.