Please explain how you have come to that deduction or is that just a catty snipe?
This line from your post led me to the conclusion I reached: "Not as lawyers or carpenters or bartenders, but as homoSEXUALS first and foremost."
I'm as straight as an arrow, but have lived and worked and played amongst many gays, and this has NEVER been my experience.
Your comments sound like talking points provided to you in lieu of actual experience with them yourself.