My main point was that not every situation is how it seems, and I will still want to hear both sides before I make a judgment. I will still be very hesitant to ever go against a spouse, whom presumably knows more about her husbands wants than anyone.
I do Thank You for not automatically flaming me, because that is what I experienced in the past when I was hesitant to not take Michael Schiavos side.
It's understandable. We each have our own perspective.
Obviously someone in charge of medical cost containment is going to see things differently than someone with an emotional attachment to the patient.
Thank you for sharing your views.
No problem. Every situation is different. FWIW, I try not to flame people automatically. There's only been one instance that I know of where I've flamed someone right away, and that was when he was being an imposter of me. Lucky I caught him quickly.