Well, not mutually. The pastor has no free-speech rights on her property.
Leafletting is permitted by law in that neighborhood (and most neighborhoods). I get threatening pizza coupons all the time.
Are you saying or implying that someone was in violation of the law? I think they were within their rights and I have studied this issue for years, but I could be wrong if they have a local ordinance.
In general we do have free speech rights, but someone can tell us to leave their property if that is their wish.
If you are making more than just a statement about the limitations of free speech in general, please publish the ordinance you are using for your claim. Otherwise it is no big deal and I understand you were just making a statement about the exception to the default of the law.