First of all, do your daughter a favor. Visit ND. See it, feel it. Our daughter is a junior there now, and most of the kids--as in 85%+--are very conservative. All this transgendered $hit is somethign that's...tolerated--not condemned, not necessarily frowned upon...and very often, just laughed at. Happy to be wrong and to hear more positive news from Notre Dame. I do wonder why they tolerate Wiccan classes and why the permit the Vagina Monologues as a Catholic university, but at least it's not a majority buying into the tolerance.