You have both?
Not sure if we should worship or feel sorry for you if that is the case.
In Our case, it is two hetero relationships that have moments of crossover....I live with the wife and the the girl friend has her own place....she comes here a lot and I go there some times.....
There are times when we are a threesome, but it's often in play as well as fooling around....the girls are very special and have a close friendship....my wife shares me with my girlfriend, who also shares me with the wife.....it is just as much about friendship as it is about all the other stuff you might think of.....we probably spend more doing normal things than you'd think.....Physical love is merely a small part of the larger relationship.....BUT men be warned....like I wrote in the song: "When these girls get together it's something to fear.....The ladies and me are so much more, than people can see when we're out of doors"
And if one says it's night at noon, the other swears to it....even facts are not safe when they get together....they have that "rolling fact" thing down like most women: facts are facts depending on their mood.....