that's why i said i was sad for you, because i really did think i understood you to have had bad experiences. i guess i am lucky. i married late, but i married well and have been married for 20 years this year. never really had a bad experience with men, other than your run of the mill crap. and i have plenty of friendships with men at work and elsewhere that are not remotely sexual. all in all i think they really are pretty much like us, just hairier : )
I told someone else the other day, I'm an observer. For those who have happy lives, I'm happy for them.
Honestly, there are some things, some feelings and some behaviors I can't comprehend, but it's fun to watch it happen to others. What is reality to many people is like Disneyland to me :)