I have never heard any of these things. I think that you are making this stuff up (aka "lying"). On Maher's show, Ann Coulter said that the President nominated the cleaning lady.
On this thread, you will see the other references I made: Posts 45, 50 and 52. Here
I never watch Bill Maher so I wouldn't know. If Coulter said such a thing, it was a silly and uncalled-for bit of hyperbole. By no means are any of the things you said are representative of what has upset the conservative base.