Hmmm... so it's just like prison, then. I think I'd be maybe just a smidgen concerned what my kid might do to be "cool" to these young upcoming urban thugs.
Don't get me wrong.I'm not saying this state of affairs is POSITIVE.I am just saying it reflects REALITY.
Personally,I wish everyone would get along,be nice to each other and greet everyone with a warm smile.I only stated what I have seen dozens of times working in an urban school system.