Utah Girl, I understand what you mean. I refuse to go to any group called stitch and b#tch, just because.
It would be fun to have a knitting circle to hang with, but some people's ideas of appropriate behavior are just not right.
I should have been warned by the name of the group. But they are amazing knitters, I just couldn't stand the constant insults coming from their mouths. I answered back once and they accused me of violating their 1st amendment. Whatever...
I did find a knitting group, I fit in a lot better. LOL.