I lived in D.C. for 4 years, you don't have to tell me what it's like.
You've offered no proof that Souter is a queer other than your own statement that he is.
Well, I have offered you evidence, circumstantial evidence. What would constitute "proof" for you? His own admission? Give him time, he lacks the conviction and self-admiration of Barney Frank.
Also, I will add that there is a cultural responsibility to accuse certain people of being gay whether or not they really are.
For example, every time Richard Gere's name comes up, it is important to bring up Gerbils, even though we all know that story is "false" from a truth standpoint, yet it is "true" from a cultural standpoint.
It is opportunities like this that allow conservatives to dip our toes into the idiotic "truth is relative" world that liberals live in. Remember, know thy enemy. In this case, we do it at the expense of Richard Gere, and perhaps Souter (although I think he probobaly is gay).