What's a real life example that can help us better understand from where you're coming?
Sure. There are many forms of abuse besides sexual abuse.
For example, good parents will teach their children not be used as political tools by those who would use them as 'useful idiots'.
The entire "anti-american/anti-war" movements is full of children whose parents have falled to teach them this important lesson and who have now become nothing more than "useful idiots" for liberals.
Of course not all useful idiots are liberals, most are but not all. All someone has to do to be a useful idiot, which you scripter are not, is to blindly follow, obey and attack without questioning those who have asked you to do this.