I just looked up Oaf-rahs bio..It seems this Stedman character isn`t even mentioned. 51 years old, never been married, not even a boyfriend mentioned..Yessir she be gay!!! What is it with lesbos and talkshows? Rosie, Ellen Degenerate, now Oaf-rah..I guess this is why Tom Cruise likes Oafrah so much, he can relate to the gayness.
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0001856/bio
The people that I know that reside in the Water Tower place tell be that Stedman is her front and that she is always seen with another woman.