In the final analysis, I hope that this whole situation turns out for the best. What everyone involved in this situation is going through is heartbreaking.
"I tend to come off a bit intense sometimes, especially when furbabies are involved."
You and me, both....;))
[actually, people have learned the hard way that *that* is the "pointy stick" you *don't* wanna be poking me with]....LOL!