Not only Kaliningrad but also Finish Karelia and Japanese Kuril islands.
I'll trade you, you give up Silesia and they can give up Kalinengrad...and then Poland and Germany can arm wrestle about who gets it.
Nor myself nor Poland has any problems with status quo. It is you the one who made similar claims towards Georgia.
As for the Fins, they can negotiate and work something out if they wish.
In Georgia, or rather defacto independent Abhazia and S.Ossessia the people have won independence from Georgia and now want and demand to be part of Russia, which was also not the case for the first 7 years. Only after constant Georgian aggression from 1993-2000 (post the initial 1991-1993 wars) did they ask to be part of Russia.
I have no problem with them being independent nations, do you? Or is it better to force people against their will to be part of Georgia....yup, now that's "freedom". /sarcasm